Childhood Friends
These are the friends we grow up with. These are the people
that saw us in those ever so awkward years between 5th and 9th
grade and still stick with us. Keeping in touch with these friends can be tricky
when everyone heads their separate ways for college or university. But the
great thing is we have known these people since (nearly) infancy so they hold a
special place in our hearts. This means they are considered family in the way
that even though we may not see them as often as you would like when we do it
is like nothing has changed and you can pick up right where you left off. Speaking
of family, sisters and brothers make great friends as well. You know everything
there is to know about each other and you share some DNA. Need a kidney?
Chances are you can probably get it from them….
School Friends
Well, obviously these are the friends we meet at school. In
grade school, most of the friends we make are our age or at least around it.
But with more and more middle-aged women and men going back to school it is
much more likely that you could be sitting in a classroom with people closer to
your parent’s age than yours. Don’t be intimated or just right them off because
they are older or younger than you. Some of the greatest people I have met in
college are twice my age. These women are funny, smart, and wiser than I could
ever be. They have had hardships in their lives that caused them to have to
return to school. Like divorce, loss of their spouse or unemployment due to the
declining job market in Michigan. So my point is make friends with these
people! They are the ones more likely to help you and give you advice. They are
also less likely to try to copy your homework are much more likely to share theirs
with you(:
Work Friends
Working a 9 to 5 is probably the last thing anyone wants to
have on the top of their to-do list. I work 6 to 5 so it would probably be on
mine. I like my sleep. Anyways, making friends at work is crucial if you want
to maintain your sanity will schlepping popcorn to unfriendly customers. My
first real job was at a local movie
theater. It was a relatively easy job, just exhausting. Occasionally, there
would be those customers that made my skin crawl. This one in particular asked
me if I was brain-dead because I asked him to repeat one item of his fourteen
ordered because he shot them off a mile a minute and it was hard to keep up. I
had worked a double that day and only had a few hours left. I started crying, crying! If I could go back to that
moment I would have told him to fuck off and choke on his $10 popcorn. Well,
realistically I wouldn’t have because I would have lost my job. But thank God for
the people I worked with that day that could see the sadness on my face and did
everything they could to cheer me up. Sometimes you even spend important days
with these people. I once spent Christmas at the theater, and it was actually
fun even being one of the busiest days of the year. Unfortunately, not everyone
you work with is going to like you and I’m sure you will come across those you
don’t see eye to eye. Just remember you don’t have to hang out with them
outside of work and keep things professional. Don’t get into fights with
coworkers, especially when you enter your career job not just your part-time
job at White-Castle. P.S. Don’t have office romances either, but that is a
whole other topic…
Best Friends
These are the friends with the amazing super power to make
you forgive them for anything and everything. I know no matter what my best
friend does to upset me or piss me off (which she doesn’t often) we will still
always be friends. Friends like this can be made anywhere and are a combination
of all the ones previously mentioned. Those friendships grow into something
special enough to where you consider this person your “BEST” friend. A lot of
people just throw around the title to any drunken girl they Instagram a picture
with. I am guilty of considering a lot of girls my “best friends” in the past.
Lately, I have come to realize someone who only talks to you when it is convenient
for them is not worthy of that label. My best friends are three girls I have
known my entire life. Who I know will always be there for me whenever I need
them, no matter what time of night. These girls are my sisters. Then of course
I have three friends who are THE BEST that I met in middle school and they have
stuck with me through the years (: Finally, my boyfriend is my best friend. I
can tell him anything and know that he won’t judge me for it. Friends that care
about you and love you unconditionally- those are the types of friends you want
in your life.
Friendzoned
Ahhh, the dreaded friend zone. This is the type of
friendship that is one-sided. You or your friend feel something more for the
other but are too afraid to say something out of fear of losing the friendship
for good. Maybe one of you has said something and now it is awkward. Maybe the
other person didn’t feel the same way. Maybe, just maybe, they felt the same
way and now the friendship has turned into a relationship. Whatever the result
may be, the best option is to just go for it! You never know what may happen and
if it is meant to be then it will be.
Signs You Might Be In the Friendzone
You guys go to matinée movies together and never go out
alone at night.
Nothing physical. You don’t hold hands, you definitely don’t
kiss.
He calls you bud or buddy and not in a cute way.
He is always texting other girls and talking to you about
it.
He asks you for relationship or dating advice.
He says you are “just one of the guys.”
You ask him for a favor and he doesn’t come through. If a
guy really like you he would do anything to get your attention.
Here are a few for the boys!
If she calls you up and invites you to “girl’s night” Bring
the icecream and a copy of the notebook because you are in the friendzone.
She is always complaining to you about her asshole boyfriend
and never giving any sort of hit hit that she may be into you.
She is always trying to get you to date her friends, or
trying to get you to find a girlfriend.
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